You can’t manage time. Time just is. You don’t mismanage five minutes and wind up with four, or six. So what is this thing that has been mislabeled for so many years, and why did it get an inappropriate name? Time management is really managing what we do during our time. But it’s easier for executives to say that time is what needs to be managed, rather than themselves. It’s easier to make time the enemy and parade our worthiness (I have so many big, important things to get done), rather than to say “I don’t keep my agreements.”
Time management is really agreement management.
At the end of the day, how good you feel about what you did (and what you didn’t do) is proportional to how well you think you kept agreements with yourself. Did you do what you told yourself to do? Did you accomplish what you think should have been accomplished?
Wasting time only means that you think you should have been doing something other than what you were doing. Sleep is not a waste of time if you think you need it. Taking a walk instead of rewriting your strategic plan is not a waste of time as long as you think taking a walk is the thing to do at that moment. It’s when you wind up not having done what you’ve agreed with yourself should be done that the trouble begins.
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A trait of sophisticated executive leadership is the ability to take risks. A healthy sense of self is required to take those risks; as you graduate in levels of responsibility, it becomes increasingly important that you trust yourself. One of the greatest saboteurs of that self-trust is broken agreements. Obviously if those agreements are not kept with others – staff, customers, stakeholders – the ability to garner their support is automatically diminished. But the real victim of commitments unfulfilled is you. Nothing takes the wind out of your sails more than not keeping your agreements with yourself.
Most executives probably consider themselves relatively trustworthy. But commitment management is way more complex, subtle, and challenging than most people realize. In order to really be in the clear, you must first know what all your agreements are – and there are very few people who have them all defined and contained.
Identify and prioritize your promises.
The most basic agreement is to show up at a designated location at a specific time (appointment). The most subtle and sophisticated agreement is to be doing what you think you should be doing with your life (are you fulfilling your purpose, living according to your values?) And there are all kinds of agreements lying in-between. Most executives have between forty and one hundred projects, a “project” being defined as something they want to finish that requires more than one action step (get a new car, hire an assistant, take the family skiing, launch the new product line, restructure their board, get a new set of golf clubs, etc.)
Those projects are driven by ten to fifteen key areas of responsibility in their job (strategic planning, asset management, staff development, liaison with the board, etc.) and in their life (health, relationships, career, money, etc.) Add to that the responsibility of defining and communicating the vision of the company and formulating and executing both the long- and short-term strategies to get there. Moreover you can’t really do any of those things – they represent outcomes and final results. The next needed physical actions (allocation of personal resources) required to execute on all of those commitments – emails to send, phone calls to make, conversations to have, documents to draft, proposals to read – often number in the hundreds.
All of these agreements must be incorporated into the commonly touted best practice of “setting priorities.” And if any one of those multiple horizons of “work” has not been adequately captured, clarified, organized and reviewed, there will be to some degree a lack of trust in your own behavior.
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Reinvent the idea of “time management”.
Because this huge self-management challenge was obscured and oversimplified with the concept of “time management,” the training, methods and tools for dealing with it have been woefully inadequate. If time were the only beast to be tamed, a clock and a diary (and some efficiency) were all you really needed. Handling commitments would be relegated to a simple little best practice – have a daily to-do list. But that hasn’t really worked since the introduction of the telephone. To reduce the management of the complexity of the world within which we operate at multiple levels of focus and responsibility down to a simple “ABC” categorization of a simple list for the day will create more frustration than freedom.
The real best practices of self-management for high-performing professionals now needs to include a thorough capturing and clarifying of all commitments – little, big, personal and professional – into a seamless system. And in addition to the obvious high-level outcomes that must be defined and reviewed (purpose, values, vision, goals, strategies), there must be an equal rigor applied to deciding and tracking the much larger number of projects and actions required to get things done – all with appropriate boundaries to ensure a sustainable balance in life and work. The degree to which you feel good about what you’re doing is equal to the degree that you know what you’re not doing, and have made that OK. That’s enough of an executive challenge. It’s time to put time management behind us.